Teenagers are some of the most hormone-filled people there are. Guys look at women like they are a piece of meat and society says that is OK. It doesn't help that girls do dress quite provocatively (also because of society). As people become teenagers, they find that they are attracted to those of the other sex. So they date, but with the pressure of society and friends, they can sometimes make the wrong decision. Dating is a relationship based on love and putting that love into effect by caring for the person you are attracted to and treating them right and with respect. Society says, "Oh just do what you want". Bad idea. With lust and sex a big theme, couples base their relationships on that. It makes it not based on love, but based on sex and the physical advantages you can get. After they have done what they wanted, they break apart and hearts are crushed.
Men and women are different. Guys are wired for the physical while women are more emotional. Put these together the right way, and great things can happen. They fit together perfectly, but when guys get too physical and girls get too accepting of this attitude, it becomes a sexual relationship and not one of love. Making out with her or having sex does not give her the respect she deserves; no matter how much she likes it. God made her into something special, and you better treat her like she is.
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